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The sun was not even close to rising when I pulled into the parking lotof the 24-hour diner. My shift had just ended, and my eyes felt heavy, but my heart was racing. Most people are asleep at 4 AM, but for me, this was the perfect time for a second date. I had met …

4 AM Coffee and New Beginnings Read More »

The Unexpected Match Life has a funny way of bringing people back into your circle when you least expect it. I was scrolling through profiles on a quiet Tuesday evening, looking for someone who shared my love for the coastal vibes of the Gisborne region. Meeting someone who values the same complex notes in life …

Matched My Ex’s Best Friend by Accident Read More »

The Unexpected Match Life has a funny way of bringing people back into your circle when you least expect it. I was scrolling through profiles on a quiet Tuesday evening, looking for someone who shared my love for the coastal vibes of the Gisborne region. Meeting someone who values the same complex notes in life …

Matched My Ex’s Best Friend by Accident Read More »

The third time she told me she could not make it, I almost gave up. My phone vibrated on the wooden table while I was putting on my shoes and checking my hair in the mirror. It was another long apology. Most people would have deleted the number and moved on right then. I sat …

Persistence pays off in the end Read More »

The Unexpected Day Many people feel a sense of dread when planning a first meeting from an online app. There is a common worry that the conversation will dry up after twenty minutes or that the person will not match their profile. We often look for an exit strategy before we even arrive. I went …

My Fourteen Hour Marathon Date in Mt Eden Read More »

Dating often feels like a puzzle with missing pieces. You try so hard to make a good impression. You pick the right clothes. You plan the perfect spot. But sometimes things go wrong despite all the planning. Most people struggle because they aim for perfection instead of honesty. They think a date has to be …

The Checklist for Real Chicago Connections Read More »

It was a Tuesday night, or maybe Wednesday morning. The clock on my nightstand showed exactly 2:57. Most people were sleeping, dreaming of their busy lives. I was just sitting there, scrolling through profiles with a cup of cold tea. I was not looking for anything loud or exciting. I just wanted someone who understood …

Matched at 2:57 AM → Married 11 Months Later Read More »

We have all been there. You are scrolling through profiles after a long shift. Your eyes are heavy and you are just looking for a connection. Maybe you are on a quick break or sitting in your car before heading home. Suddenly, your thumb slips. You swipe right on someone you did not mean to. …

Met Because of a Completely Wrong Swipe Read More »

It was a chilly evening in Auckland when I walked into the local trade mixer. I had spent all week making my costume. I went as a human version of a paint swatch, specifically the one that won at the last big industry event. I felt a bit silly but also proud of my creativity. …

The Night We Both Wore the Same Master Painter Costume Read More »